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Our selves


  • You probably have heard already people advising you to ‘listen to your heart” (…like the song says…) as to say, let the logical and reasonable answer aside and follow your heart’s choice…
  • Some of you have even heard mumbles about « your ego », about shutting-it down more often…
  • Never heart about your inner child? Very famous topic! Tons of free mediations online or expansive programs,  to take a better care or our inner-child…
  • I’m positive, as a child you must have seen the angel and the demon on the shoulders of cartoon characters… each giving their own opinion over the matter in hand…

These are generalities, concepts that have almost become commonplace.
What do they all have in commun?


I’m not talking you about schizophrenia, nor any of those strange person walking alone in the street talking loudly to themselves… I’m talking about you, with all your sanity. (and even you, who dare to silently think that you must be special, weird, or not “so normal!”)

It is merely an observation, a natural habit, being that, there, in a particular situation, it’s only ‘a part of you’ who think that, would do this… Only a part of you! Implying, some other parts would react another way!

    • I don’t feel like answering you. I don’t care, it annoys me. When does it stop? aww…I must listen… but come on! Soon, I’ll be on a break, let’s do something awesome!


    • I want to call her, talk to her… But I might disturb her, annoy her, maybe she doesn’t feel like talking to me… 
    • I want one !! Yeah, but I also want that other thing, that I need more…

    It could be an inner conflict… It could simply be yourself, thinking… with yourself. A small conversation, to set up a reflection on an important topic, to get yourself on the same page with all your thoughts on the matter, weigh the pros and cons, be sure not to forget any detail, analyzing it, making up your mind about it… it’s all inside you, and it’s always “you”

    Those speeches are completely naturals! SO naturals that we assimilate them to our thoughts. Actually, WE are really thinking! In our mind, information is coming in and we translate the data into thoughts, and all thoughts arrived with the same “voice” in our mind. The inner voices which do bring information before we translate them into thoughts aren’t usually dissociated much by our society… Hence we aren’t used to do so either. But they do come from different senders. Each sender being different parts of yourself. Each part exists, thinks, lives, have an identity, a personality and a past. 

    The animation movie “Inside Out” states nicely (but simply) those inner dialogues. It pictures all the exchanges that are sanely taking place in your mind, between you and yourself.




    Before differentiating ourselves, our different parts, it is crucial to understand and take care of our principal part, the one incarnated in this body;

    Our soul is what is called in divers coaching “OUR INNER CHILD”. He or she is the first soul incarnated in our body at birth (before birth). This soul is the owner of the body. Your body actually, and your soul, well, your mind. He or she IS you. Well, most of the time. Our inner child is driving our self approximatively 60% of the time.



    First, “inner” because he/she is inside us, whatever the age of the body, (and also because he/she tends to hide his/herself… or, is it to differentiate your current children from your inner child?).

    Second, “child”, because of his/her shape. He/she is you, from the start, as a kid. Also because each life is a temporary restart of a soul, whatever the age of the soul (even if you are “an old soul”)

    To conclude, the last thing you need to understand right now (and the least explained elsewhere…) is that the purpose of our inner child is NOT to stay a child forever! But to grow up, evolve, overcome our locks, heal our injury, and thrive! But it requires to dig inside our problems consciously… (with our conscious, not only with medicine, which hides it away)
    Note that we are our inner child, he/she is the one having motivation (or lack of) of doing things, if you are reluctant to do something, it’s your inner child who does the blockade. IT IS OUR UNCONSCIOUS 


    Therefore, your inner child is the first to interact with Arniël in his healing cession. See here (article to be translated next). Without special care nor any help, he/she will rehearse our past, emotional trauma, anxiety and troubles from our childhood into our daily life… (to generally ends up incarnated our wounds into our physical body by getting cancer and other medical surprises, or simply all the “old-age diseases” …) For more info, see our Inner-child article, to be translated later.


    [Recap] Your soul, broadly called “your inner child” is the main resident of your body, its legit owner and its main driver. Then, there are many other parts of you, other selves, other souls with whom you interact daily and whom incarnate themselves into your body without you noticing the difference.


    Among ourselves/our parts, there is a very special one we call our Divine Self, (our higher self). He/She is the one gathering the entireness of ourselves.
    Picture a tree: the Divin Self is the trunk while all the other parts are branches. Each of us are connected to our higher self. Always.

    Our Divine self doesn’t decide for us. He/she is only guiding us… if we ask for guidance, and if we listen to her/him. 

    Our Divine Self is the first born of our energetic/spiritual parents. Then, over time, he/she developed him/herself and wanted to experiment different version of him/herself. Wanted to be different, take different path. Our conscious is evolving! The universe is constantly evolving, expanding, isn’t it? So are we. From our higher self, other selves were generated…

    Our Divine is always the totality of ourselves, the gathering of all of our many parts, energy, consciousness. Our Divine Self is the higher version of ourselves possible.
    First, our soul-inner-child purpose is to grow to become the soul-adult we intended to be.
    Then, the same goal applies to all of us: to grow and evolve to become equal to our higher self, to shine everything we really are, and invite others to do so.


    Next to our inner-child, there are 3-4 other selves (or more) who are often here. Replacing, interchanging with your inner-child, or influencing him/her. Your inner-child-Soul is controlling, “is you” about 60% of the time, while some other selves deal with the other 40%…
    All of them being yourself, naturally mix incognito in your “personality”. The dialogues in the introduction are some example of your soul with other parts of you.

    All can be passing through our consciousness. ( They come with a purpose. They come because you have things to settle together, because they are more talented for a specific task, because the situation calls them, because our “child” part is lazy… they can also come with a sneaky target, for their own benefit, to influence you towards stupid behaviours…)


    And all the other parts of yourself have the keys !

    It is COMPLETELY NATURAL and INNATE to everybody !
    It is, and always have been the way, for everyone on earth.
    You, being conscious of it, or not.

    And we are not talking about psychic disorder, nor any “possession”. A possession is when a nasty entity or a foreign soul is entering without your consent. A burglar, a housebreaker of some sort.

    Note, also, that thoughts are energy, they can be sent and received. you can me influenced by the thoughts of your surroundings. Between your parts’ and people’s around you,
    a great among of thoughts that you “have”, are not even yours ! 

    It is possible, and often needed, to fetch the parts who make a mess inside you, who react to a situation, who incarnate the problem into your personality.
    Go talk to them. Understand their problem, and solve it, to get back to your own peace of mind. Everything that bugs you is a conflict that you have with your parts, it’s inside you. Other people are just the mirror of the situation, opportunities to deal with the core of the real problem. 


    You can meet your inner child and your other selves in meditation, with a visual! I mean, really meet them, see them, ear their names and all, discover them. Or should I say re-discover. Recognize and accept their presence and actual part in yourself. Understand their point of view and why they make trouble

    Consciousness can easily be “duplicated” to do many things at once, to be in two lives at a time. Each “version” is evolving independently of the other, even if everything is connected.


    Note that there are MANY OTHER PARTS of your Divine Self …  
    Some are “often” here in you. But there are many, many others …
    And if some are not incarnated at the moment … others are embodied elsewhere right now ! 
    In other people ! We are not the only person embodying parts of our Divine Self!
    Other people, many others are parts of us !


    ………wait, what !? “Energetic Parents”!? Yes. SPIRITUAL PARENTS   As above, so below. 

    In the “astral” we also have parents, and family… 

    Often, our physical parents are not exactly our energetic parents … 
    Life is a play room. Each incarnation picked a role
    (ex: your mom’s role-incarnation may not be played by your mom’s soul !)
    To discover your energetic parents, you need to discover yourself and your Divine Self first .

    Note that, spiritually, parts of your parents gave birth to parts of you. (… Multi-dimensional family tree!)
    Your soul also surely have siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts …

    The souls of our divin, our parents’ (and all of their parts) our children (and all of their parts) and all the souls of our spiritual family are what we call OUR SOUL FAMILY”   


    You are in a relationship ? 
    One or more of your parts are also in a relationship with the person you love!
    I grant you, it’s getting complicated…Especially the problems … 
    It was already complicated with ONE person, now there’re several parts!

     … But actually, no ! It’s the other way around !! It explains the complexity of human relationship! Precisely, when things go wrong, there are divergences between yourselves and the others’ …it’s a massive knot bag within yourself already, all the more with your beloved, friends and family! (See Twin Flames)

    Our society ignores the multidimensional reality: 
    we operate blindly! 

    Blind walking in front of a door, we believe to hit a wall!

    Picture each parts of you being a thread. 
    Without deciphering their interactions, you end up tangled-up, blindfolded and hands tied behind your back!  

    Good luck for the denouement…


    ~  Arniël

    Notre Enfant Intérieur

    Qui est-il réellement?